Parents Out Of Fuel

Some days stay in the memory a long time… This one I will never forget; it was the day that I learned what a terrific sense of humour God has!  And I was on the receiving end… As so many stories do, this one started quite simply…  I set off from the Urban Saints offices … Continue reading Parents Out Of Fuel

This Little Light Of Mine

Sometimes, I’m really surprised by people… in a good way.  Sometimes, in circumstances that could go badly wrong, you see the best of people in unexpected ways.  Sometimes, angels appear where and when you least expect them to… A few days ago I needed to pay a cheque (yes, they do still exist!) into the … Continue reading This Little Light Of Mine

A Fathers’ Love For His Son

“Dad-dy!”… One of the few words that James can say (others include “please”, “no”, “more” and, rather awkwardly, “beer”).  Unlike any of his other words (especially “beer”!), when James says “Dad-dy!” he touches my heart in a very special way… there is a wonderful connection that the word forms between our two hearts.  It stirs … Continue reading A Fathers’ Love For His Son

Swept Away, But Saved!

I will never forget the events of that sultry mid-summers day, both for the great significance of them for a young boy called Freddie, but also for how his story speaks to each of us that care for, and about, children or young people with additional needs… The day had started quite uneventfully, but as … Continue reading Swept Away, But Saved!

Weak Made Strong

Have you ever built a great big tower out of Jenga blocks?  Seen how high you can build it until it falls over?  Great fun isn’t it!  Around this time last year, I was helping out at Spring Harvest, the Christian festival that runs every Easter.  My role was to support guests with additional needs … Continue reading Weak Made Strong

Haircut Sir?

Last week James needed his hair cut. A simple enough task you might think, but in James’ case it is one of very many tasks that require a routine to be known, and more importantly rigorously followed, in every aspect. Firstly, there is the location; sat on the wooden bench in our hallway at home. … Continue reading Haircut Sir?

Are You The ‘Mystery’ Tool On A Swiss Army Pocket Knife?

I’ve owned a Victorinox Swiss Army pocketknife like this since a school trip to Switzerland more years ago that I care to remember. Over all of those years I’ve used it a lot, or rather I’ve used most of it a lot. When I was looking at it a few days ago, something struck me, made me … Continue reading Are You The ‘Mystery’ Tool On A Swiss Army Pocket Knife?

Trump And Disability

If Donald Trump were food he would be Marmite. The world, and America in particular, is divided between those who love him and hang on his every word, and those who still can’t quite believe that this man is the President of the most powerful nation on earth.  Whatever your position on Trump, the unavoidable … Continue reading Trump And Disability

Additional Needs: Acceptance Is A Choice

Acceptance (noun), defined by the English Living Dictionary as;  1. The action of consenting to receive or undertake something offered. 2.  The process or fact of being received as adequate, valid, or suitable.  3. Agreement with or belief in an idea or explanation.  4. Willingness to tolerate a difficult situation. Acceptance is a word that … Continue reading Additional Needs: Acceptance Is A Choice

All You Need Is Love?

Since John Lennon wrote this iconic Beatles song 50 years ago, there has been a fair amount of speculation about what it means, what he was trying to tell us… “There's nothing you can do that can't be done. Nothing you can sing that can't be sung. Nothing you can say, but you can learn … Continue reading All You Need Is Love?